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07.11.01 @ 16:49
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Read this entry first. I found the letter I sent to Dan Michaels. Here it is.

~~>Dear Dan Michaels, ~~~> ~~~>I am a big fan of yours, I even switched radio stations when you did. ~~~>However, on the morning of November 7, while joking around you ~~~made an off ~~~>hand comment, which I and several of my friends took as offensive. I am ~~~>sure ~~~>you probably didn't even realize what you were saying, as most ~~~people don't ~~~>even realize because it is such a part of our culture that ~~~certain movies ~~~>and TV shows are "guys shows" while others are "chick flicks". ~~~> ~~~>Many of us find this unacceptable. I am one of a very large ~~~group of female ~~~>science fiction, action-adventure, fantasy fans. We are not, as many ~~~>stereotypes depict us, geeky loners, with absolutely no life. We are in ~~~>every place you find women.. We are vibrant active parts of the ~~~community. ~~~>We have friends, families, careers, many of us are college ~~~students, I my ~~~>self am a single mother. We are as a rule very intelligent, ~~~well educated ~~~>and look like everyone else, except that we often time tend not ~~~to fall in ~~~>to stereotypes, and tend to be feminist, even though many of us are also ~~~>stay at home moms. We have a wide variety of interests and can be found ~~~>around the world. We are in every religion (from Christians Jewish, ~~~>Muslim, ~~~>to atheist to Pagan), every socio economic group, every area of ~~~life. Most ~~~>of us are just that fans, we are not extremists, we have a real ~~~life, and ~~~>we ~~~>know the difference between reality and fantasy, we simply ~~~chose this as ~~~>our ~~~>way of relaxing and having fun. ~~~> ~~~>There are even web sites dedicated to us. One of my personal ~~~favorites is ~~~> it is a list of female Star Wars ~~~fans, but ~~~>we ~~~>also cover the gamut of every other type of fandom, from Lord ~~~of the Rings, ~~~>Harry Potter, Star Trek, Dr. Who, Vampires, and anything else ~~~you can name. ~~~> ~~~>I am writing to you personally just to let you know that off handed ~~~>comments ~~~>can be hurtful, even if they are not meant that way. I don't ~~~expect to hear ~~~>anything back on this, I am just venting my personal opinion to let you ~~~>know ~~~>how many of us feel. ~~~> ~~~>Thank you for listening, ~~~> ~~~>Your (still) fan,
Ignore the ~~~and >. They are from my e ail program and I was too lazy to delete them. Still flying high. I also just came back and fixed the link so it goes to the correct entry now.. oops..


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In every neighborhood there is at least one house that all the neighbors gossip about. This is a diary from the woman who lives in that house. I am a single mother in her mid thirties. I live in North Dakota with my son, Warren.

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