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27.03.03 @ 12:16
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First the good news, Warren has been officially discharged from PSJ, for real this time, not just shoved away with no help. He is doing awesome in school (crosses fingers and toes that it will keep up), and really likes being back.

The bad news, is that except for PATH which because of the custody agreement would require Mike's signature as well as mine, because of past issues I don't want to get into at the moment the only other way to do a voluntary placement would be to sign over custody to Cass County. Something I refuse to do. I know the horror stories, and I am not letting total strangers who do nothing but push papers make decisions regaarding MY son. I am contacting legal Aid. If I have to I will drag Mike's sorry worthless ass in to court. I tried calling them yesterday, but all I got was a buzy signal, or a very annoying message that "all circuits are busy, please try your call again later" I'd hate to work in that office. Would it kill them to spring for a few more lines. I have to take some steps here to protect myself and my son. I am sick of this. I know better than almost anyone what is best for MY son.

I'm just his mother and sole support for the last ten years. I am not giving him up, so he can feel thrown away, like some sort of disposable person. I am sorry, but I don't care what he does he is still my child. I am not getting rid of him, just because he screwed up, has problems, or may do something that disappoints me. That is just wrong. Children are not disposable commondieties to be replaced, if defective like some sort of kitchen appliance.

"This one is too much trouble, can I please exhange him for a quieter more well behaved model please".
They are people with minds of their own, and guess what they are human and make mistakes like the rest of us. And in Warren's case he also has an illness (like mother (and father) like son), and years of bad examples. After all, we were all once stupid kids too. He deserves the same chance. He deserves a family that loves him. ALL kids do. I am so sick of our disposable society. I am sick of the way people are thrown away, like the paper plates of last summer's picnic. They are not numbers on a page, they are not just statistics, they have a face, and a story. They are HUMAN beings. Something that too many people seem to forget these days.

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In every neighborhood there is at least one house that all the neighbors gossip about. This is a diary from the woman who lives in that house. I am a single mother in her mid thirties. I live in North Dakota with my son, Warren.

I tend to be a bit of a slob, and am the opposite of a girly-girl. I am geek girl, who loves Star Wars, Star Trek, Harry Potter, Buffy, Angel, action movies, science fiction, action adventure, Dr. Who, and so on and so on.

I love to write and while I don't post much fiction online anymore I would love to be a writer someday. I am also overweight, bipolar and suffer from allergy induced asthma.